Social Networking: Are you powerless to stop?

Are You Powerless Over Social Networking?

Titter all you want over Twitter addiction. The fact is, not being able to put the keyboard down is a growing concern—especially for sober addicts looking for a high.

by Laura Barcella

"My friend Allie knew her Internet stalking habit had gotten out of control when she had to install parental control software. Not for her kids (30 and based in San Francisco, Allie is single with no children), but for herself, to forcibly prevent her from peeking at her ex-boyfriend’s social networking profiles. “At times it felt incredibly compulsive,” she recalls. “Very much like the compulsion to drink and do drugs, before I got sober. I was thinking, ‘Don't do this; it won't end well,’ but I went ahead and did it anyway.”

"Allie’s case may be extreme, but she’s far from alone. Millions of people regularly use social networking hubs like Facebook and Twitter. Many of us, too, turn to everyday mood-alterers like alcohol, drugs, food, sex, or caffeine to numb out. But just like Pinot Grigio isn’t the cause of alcoholism, the Internet itself isn’t to blame for our overreliance on it. It’s how—and how often— websites are used that can become problematic. Some people innocently rely on social media to keep family, friends, and friendly strangers informed about their everyday lives. But in recent years, as American culture has Facebooked, Tweeted and Spotified its way into full-blown online overload, an unlucky few—some who are cross-addicted to other substances, like Allie—have become outright Internet junkies."


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Social Media and Online Gaming

Social Media and Online Gaming Addiction: A Growing Problem

September 21, 2011

Maybe you feel lost when you leave your house without your iPhone. Or contemplate Facebook updates while stuck in an interminable work meeting. Social media, mobile devices, and online gaming communities keep us increasingly connected to the world around us. But for some, the thrill of connection actually leads to isolation and addiction.
“Social media addiction is real,” says Russel DeMaria, author of Reset: Changing the Way We Look at Video Games and a career adviser at The Art Institute of Seattle. DeMaria, who has researched social media and gaming addiction, adds that addiction is far more severe than a “habitual use of social media.” In other words, checking a Facebook account every hour doesn’t constitute an addiction.
DeMaria asserts that the test of addiction is to look at the impacts on your life.


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Video Games, Rehab, and Addiction

Published on September 21, 2011

By Caitlin Johnston/MCTCampus

Michael Decker is always reachable. The 42-year-old creative director from Dallas sleeps with his phone nearby on his nightstand. From when he wakes up and checks it until he sets it down before bed, his phone is constantly with him.“It’s an intrusion into your own private life,” he says. “It leads to burnout if you can never turn it off.”Decker, who owns an iPhone , a laptop and an iPad, uses his gadgets for work and for play. Though he makes a point not to look at his phone at dinner, he says his friends still chide him. Put that thing down, they say.

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Too much screen time? Experts discuss addiction

Always on and reachable


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Michael Decker is always reachable. The 42-year-old creative director from Dallas sleeps with his phone nearby on his nightstand. From when he wakes up and checks it until he sets it down before bed, his phone is constantly with him.

“It’s an intrusion into your own private life,” he says. “It leads to burnout if you can never turn it off.” Decker, who owns an iPhone, a laptop and an iPad, uses his gadgets for work and for play. Though he makes a point not to look at his phone at dinner, he says his friends still chide him. Put that thing down, they say. “They always have a point,” he says. “It becomes more important than truly interacting with friends and family.” 

For most of the population, technology is a tool to enhance our lives. Our phone beeps, and we feel compelled to check whatever new text, email or tweet has come our way. Decker’s behavior is not uncommon, nor is it particularly unsettling. Recently, indications of something more malicious have started to rumble. The Counseling Center at UT Dallas has a page on its website dedicated to computer addiction. A quick search of Yahoo Groups returns more than 100 groups related to gaming addictions, with names like WOW_widow and EverQuest-Widows.

Search further, and extreme texting and gaming become more than an annoying character trait in a child or girlfriend. Excessive use can lead to addictive behavior, says therapist Cosette Rae, who launched a technology rehabilitation center in the Seattle area. She says her clients, far from being isolated cases, are part of a newly recognized problem: Technology has the potential to cause addictive behavior, experts say.

The evidence is in the existence of Rae’s clinic, the ReSTART Program, which she says is the first program of its kind in the United States, although similar programs are available in South Korea and Great Britain.

Therapists and counselors are petitioning the American Psychological Association to list technology addiction in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders — the primary system used to classify and diagnose mental disorders.

Others say that even if technology use isn’t extreme enough to be considered dependency, it can still harm a user’s mental health and relationships.

Clearly, not every tech user is an addict masking some other mental health issue. Like food, technology is a crucial part of our daily lives. Texting during the day and watching TV at night doesn’t mean a person has an addiction, but it is important to evaluate how often and to what extent we use technology, experts say.

Changing our brains

Like other substance and behavioral addictions, technology use has a spectrum. While patients at ReSTART struggle with addiction and dependency, most people engage with technology in a healthy manner. Once that interaction creates negative consequences in multiple parts of a person’s life, though, that relationship becomes abusive, says Jason Northrup, a researcher at Texas A&M University-Central Texas, in Killeen.

Researchers are finding that heightened technology use triggers the same sites in the brain that are activated through substance abuse and nonchemical addictive activities such as gambling, Northrup says.

Excessive technology use can also cause changes in dopamine levels — the part of the brain regulating rewards, punishments and euphoria and also linked with alcohol and drug use, experts say.

“Most researchers out there agree that the effects are often very, very similar to what you would see in a chemical addiction,” Northrup says.

For example, a recent study at the University of Maryland asked students to go a day without electronic technology of any kind — phones, TVs, computers — and record their experiences.

Students used literal terms of addiction to describe their dependency, citing feelings of anxiety, isolation, depression and even physical reactions such as increased heart rate.

Low-level abuse can manifest itself in various areas of a person’s daily life. Parents might find themselves spending less time with their kids, instead constantly responding to emails and phone calls. General wellness suffers as well. Houston counselor John O’Neill points to small, everyday changes such as no longer having to get up and cross a room to answer the home phone. Childhood obesity is rising as kids spend more and more time with screens instead of outside playing. Other studies show a link between the rise in attention deficit disorder and increased technology use.

Extreme cases

Video gaming invaded the life of Jun Kristofferson, 22, and led him in June to check into rehab.

The California resident had been gaming eight hours a day. The former straight-A college student withdrew from classes. He had a job for a bit but just stopped going. He lived at a friend’s place, rent free, and spent day after day gaming.

“There were months of just playing, but not even enjoying playing,” Kristofferson says by phone. “Not knowing what to do. Having no direction. I was just lost.”

When evaluating a potential case of technology addiction at ReSTART, Rae looks at all domains of someone’s life, not just how many hours he is spending online.

“We are mental health workers looking at a client’s entire history and how technology fits into that picture,” Rae said. “Often, there’s something in their life leading to this particular escape mechanism.”

For example, patients often struggle with other issues such as depression, social anxiety or Asperger’s syndrome. For Kristofferson, who started using technology at an early age when he got a Nintendo for Christmas, his excessive gaming is linked with depression and family issues.

Learning to cope

Even if technology use is not yet dangerous to them, people need to be aware of the potential problems and be open to the idea that they might need to make some changes, experts say.

“There’s nothing wrong with being connected, but it’s incredibly distracting when you use these devices every minute or every other minute,” doctoral student Sergey Golitsynskiy, who helped conduct the Maryland study, said in a recent interview. “It looks like you’re spending 10 seconds there, a minute there, but it all adds up and fractions your day. You can’t focus on anything meaningful.”

Northrup encourages people to see what happens if they cut technology out of their lives for a day or a week.

“I don’t believe everyone gets addicted to technology, or anything like that,” he said. “It’s kind of like fire. Fire can be a very useful thing or a very destructive thing. It depends how you use it.”

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Online addiction no game, experts warn

Online addiction no game, experts warn

Stress over FarmVille led to a child's death, investigators say.

Posted: October 28, 2010 - 11:00pm 

On a message board for online gaming addicts, the story of a young Jacksonville mother who admitted to killing her baby after he interrupted her computer game drew horror, skepticism, and in some cases, understanding.

"It is exactly like a drug addiction," one reader said. "Try interrupting a meth addict right before he/she is about to get high."

Alexandra Tobias, 22, is facing a possible life sentence after pleading guilty to second-degree murder in the January death of her 3-month-old son, Dylan Lee Edmondson.

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